Sunday, August 12, 2012

Randomized Relation - Friendship !

  Readers !  How Are You All !! Hope You Doing Well..


Finally Something that I Love The Most  
" FRIENDSHIP


          Its The one Word That Can give me All The Forms of Happiness In one Huge Package

It is Something..because of Which I Have Taken Birth In This World. it Is The Cause Of HopeFul Attitude of Mine. it Is The Source of Confidence, It Is The Reason of Why I Smile Secretly.


Friendship !! Its The Topic I May Go On And On ..About..Indeed It is Something that Is Beyond Description  ! isn't It ?
but I Shall Try..Describing It in The Form Of My opinions And Ideas ...

Friendship..Has The Varied Definitions ! For Each And Every Person in This Universe , It Has the Different Meaning And Importance..!! 

For Some People it Is The Purest Form of Love !
Some Say, Friendship Is Love Itself.
Some Give It A name Of brotherhood or Sisterhood !
Few Say it Is The Companionship.


Whatever Different Dimensions or Names people May Give It.. Dosti Toh Dosti Hi Hai !

but For Some People friendship Is Just Not one Relation ! It is Much More Than That.
it Their Life For Them.. !

For Me Friendship Is the Most Significant part Of My Life ! I m Not Writing this to Show How Much Serious i m  For It. ! It is Not The Thing Worth proving ANyways.

However Showing how Beautiful it is , is The thing Worth Doing ..


दोस्ती तो यूँ सब ही करते हैं , पर कभी कभी उस दोस्ती को समझते समझते हमारी पूरी उम्र निकल जाती है.

दोस्ती को क्या नाम दे यह महत्वपूरण नहीं है . दोस्ती का महत्व समझना जरुरी है.


World's most beautiful Feeling Is Friendship !! Friendship Is Something That Comes From Within..it Is Not The Thing That Can be Bought From Somebody It Is the Most natural relation  thus the Purest !

                
              If Somebody Asks Me What Is Friendship For Me ?

I Would Say Friendship Is That part of us that Is Present In The Soul ! Nobody can Modify It Other Than the Soul-mate ( Best Friend )

Dosti  Sirf  Ek  Doosre Ko समझना Nahin Hai , Dosti Ek Doosre ko जानना  hai .
Dosti  Sirf  Ek  Doosre Ki बातों Ko Sunna nahin hai , Ek Doosre Ke Saath Rehna Nahin Hai . Dosti Ek Doosre ke Dil Mein Rehna Hai. Dosti Sirf Ek एहसास Nahin Hai, Dosti puri जिन्दगी  hai..


Dosti koi छुपी  Hui feeling Nahin Hai , Dosti Ek खुल्ली Kitaab Hai !!

Dosti Mein दो लोग  Nahin Hote ,Dosti mein Do लोग एक hote Hain !!

Dosti Ek मोहब्बत  Hai Jo Sirf  सच्चा  Dost Hi Samajh Sakta Hai , Aur Koi Nahin !!

Dosti Woh खज़ाना Hai Jo Sabke paas Nahin Hota. Dosti ईश्वर्  ka Sabse badaa वरदान  Hai ,Jo Sirf unn logon Ko नसीब्  Hota Hai Jinn logon Ko Uske  महत्व  Ka Ehsaas hota Hai Aur Uski कदर  Hoti Hai..

Dosti Sirf kucchh क्षणों ka Saath Nahin, Dosti सदियोन   ka rishta Hai . Log मर jaate Hain par Dosti ka Woh Ehsaas Kabhi  खतम  nahin Hota. Woh hamesha जिन्दा rehta Hai.

Friendship Is Not Some Kind Of System that Is Governed By the Rules , In fact For Me Friendship Is the Most Randomized Relation on This Earth.

If We Can't Say What We Feel to our Friends ,that is Not Friendship, that Is Something Else ! Friendship has No Sorts Of Hesitation in It.

Friendship mein Do इन्सानो  Ke दिल  Ek Hote Hain, A True friend Is Not Some Other person. In fact our Friend is our Alter Ego (Second Self).

In Friendship Nothing Is Hidden, Everything Is known to Each Other..

Like Love, Friendship has No Boundaries In It. It Is Boundless..And has No limits !!

True Friendship Is Not Simply Every body's Cup of Coffee !! Cause According To me The most Required Quality in A Human being Is Acceptance !! And friendship's Literal meaning is "Acceptance"

Dosti Ek Doosre Ki कमियों  Ko Doondh kar , Dost ko त्याग  Dene ka Naam Nahin Hai
सच्ची  Dosti Ka matlab Hai Usse Apne Dost Ko प्यार  Se समझाना ,uski  कमियों  Ko Door karne Mein Uski निस्सवार्थ मदद  Karna.. 

Do I Really need to Say ??

Dosti Mein Koi छोटा-बड़ा Nahin Hota , Nah hi Koi Ameer-Gareeb !!
Dosti Mein Koi Male-Female Nahin Hota.

सच्ची Dosti Inn Sab Cheezon Se kahin Upar hai  ! 

Friendship means Doing Random Things ! As i Said Before Friendship Is Randomization For Me !
Iss "दौर " Mein yeh Cheezein karna kabhie kabhie bahut Mushkil Ho jaati hain !!
  • Like Randomly Hugging A Friend (Irrespective Of the Bloody "GENDER")


  • Kuchh bhi keh dena Jo mann mein Aaye (Without giving A Second thought or Being Calculative)


  • Yunhi Koi prank Khel lena, Yeah Mazaak mein kuchh keh Dena(Without making Do's And Not To Do's lists)


  • Yunhi kabhie Bhi Ek Doosre ke Ghar pe Aajana ( Without A real Cause or For Naasta Or Coffee)


  • Yunhi raat ko 2-3 Baje Neend Nahin Aaye Aur message karna "Kya kar raha hai" (Without Thinking Ke jag Raha hoga Ya Nahin )


  • To React In A manner We Want In Friend's presence (Without making An Assumption Chart of yeh Kya Sochega, Sochegi  Etc)


  • To Act like A Complete insane , And Retard When our Friend Falls , Or Do Something Embarrassing(Without thinking isse Bura Toh Nahin lagega ).
For Some people It Might Be Easy to get All These Qualities , Or to Perform All These "Risky Jobs" but i Have Not Got Such A friend With Whom I Can Be My selves ! but I M Certain Someone Is Made For me Too.. After All I Am Not that bad Or unlucky ! Der Aaye Durust Aaye ! just Saying ...

And then Some Amazing Moments Of Silence , When your friend Is Sitting next to You.But you Guys Don't Speak. Yet Think It Was the Best Conversation You Ever had ( Picked this Line From Web,Cause I Love it )

 Those true buddies (Soul-mates) Are indeed hard To Find !
jinke upar Aapka haqq hota hai.Aur unka Aap pe ! !




A true Friend Is one Who Motivates us to Rise up, And fight With All The Odds rather Than Demotivating Us By making Some Harsh Comments..

Where There Is proud ,Friendship Can't Stay There For longer time !!

For Me the Most "Arduous" Job Is To get Such kind Of Friend As i have imagined & For Whom I Have Come in This World. Such A person For Whom I Will Do literally Anything (Dying Is off course Well-Known)....

The person Who may Change For The World but Would never Change For Me .. He Would Be my best friend Always Despite Whatever happens ! For Whose Priorities may Change Gradually but Some Part of him Would Still Require me As His Best Friend ! 

That one For Whom i may fight With Entire World just To make Sure he his Doing Well !
For Whom my Affection Would never Diminish And Lasts Even After We Die !

For Whom I Shall Sacrifice My possessions to Make Sure he is Comfortable !



People May Succeed in influencing me in Any Way Except Changing My hopeful Attitude Towards My 0ptimistic Belief That " I Will get My Soul Mate " i am bound to get one ! And the Day i Will Be In the State of realization ..i Would be Dancing With Full of joy And Cheer I Would be Happiest person On This Earth That Day !!


At last Some of the Most Interesting And Lovely Lines From A few Songs :

  • Meri Zindagii Savaari,Mujhko gale lagake ,baitha Diya Falak pe, Mujhe khwab Se uthaake, Yaara teri yaari Ko Maine Toh Khuda Maana,tere jaisa yaar kahan,kahan Aisa yaarana ...!!

  • Teri Har Ek Buraai Mein Daante Woh Dost,Gham Ki Ho Dhoop Toh Chaaya bane tera Woh Dost,Naache Bhi Woh teri Khushi Mein,yaaron Dosti Badi Hi Haseen Hai !

  • Tu Hai Jaisa Mujho Waisa Dikhna..Dikhna..!Besabak surooron ka saaqi
Mujhe kya parwaah iss duniya ki
Tu paas mere jag paas mere
Main hoon hi nahi iss duniya ki
Tumhi din chadhe
Tumhi din dhale
Tumhi ho bandhu
Sakha tumhi

  • Saari Duniya Ek Taraf Hai 
    Ek Taraf Hai Hum

    Har Khushi To Door Bhage
    Mil Rahein Hai Gum

    But When U Smile For Me
    World Seems All Right

    Yeh Meri Zindagi 
    Pal Mein Khil Jaaye
    Jaane Kyun



    Jaane Kyun Dil Jaanta Hai 
    Tu Hai To 
    I'll Be All Right



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2 comments:

  1. Aaje mein hawao pe betha k le chalun.. tu he toh mera dost hai..
    Jay.. mast likha hai.. though there are lot many times the repitition of idea but still its beautifully written also your true feelings are showcased :)

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  2. hilarious, funny but very intriguing and thoughtful at the same time... wonderful re-read :)

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