Randomized Relation - Friendship !

  Readers !  How Are You All !! Hope You Doing Well..

Finally Something that I Love The Most  

" FRIENDSHIP " 

          Its The one Word That Can give me All The Forms of Happiness In one Huge Package

It is Something..because of Which I Have Taken Birth In This World. it Is The Cause Of HopeFul Attitude of Mine. it Is The Source of Confidence, It Is The Reason of Why I Smile Secretly.

Friendship !! Its The Topic I May Go On And On ..About..Indeed It is Something that Is Beyond Description  ! isn't It ?
but I Shall Try..Describing It in The Form Of My opinions And Ideas ...

Friendship..Has The Varied Definitions ! For Each And Every Person in This Universe , It Has the Different Meaning And Importance..!! 

For Some People it Is The Purest Form of Love !
Some Say, Friendship Is Love Itself.
Some Give It A name Of brotherhood or Sisterhood !
Few Say it Is The Companionship.


Whatever Different Dimensions or Names people May Give It.. Dosti Toh Dosti Hi Hai !

but For Some People friendship Is Just Not one Relation ! It is Much More Than That.
it Their Life For Them.. !

For Me Friendship Is the Most Significant part Of My Life ! I m Not Writing this to Show How Much Serious i m  For It. ! It is Not The Thing Worth proving ANyways.

However Showing how Beautiful it is , is The thing Worth Doing ..


दोस्ती तो यूँ सब ही करते हैं , पर कभी कभी उस दोस्ती को समझते समझते हमारी पूरी उम्र निकल जाती है.

दोस्ती को क्या नाम दे यह महत्वपूरण नहीं है . दोस्ती का महत्व समझना जरुरी है.

World's most beautiful Feeling Is Friendship !! Friendship Is Something That Comes From Within..it Is Not The Thing That Can be Bought From Somebody It Is the Most natural relation  thus the Purest !

                

              If Somebody Asks Me What Is Friendship For Me ?

I Would Say Friendship Is That part of us that Is Present In The Soul ! Nobody can Modify It Other Than the Soul-mate ( Best Friend )

Dosti  Sirf  Ek  Doosre Ko समझना Nahin Hai , Dosti Ek Doosre ko जानना  hai .

Dosti  Sirf  Ek  Doosre Ki बातों Ko Sunna nahin hai , Ek Doosre Ke Saath Rehna Nahin Hai . Dosti Ek Doosre ke Dil Mein Rehna Hai. Dosti Sirf Ek एहसास Nahin Hai, Dosti puri जिन्दगी  hai..

Dosti koi छुपी  Hui feeling Nahin Hai , Dosti Ek खुल्ली Kitaab Hai !!

Dosti Mein दो लोग  Nahin Hote ,Dosti mein Do लोग एक hote Hain !!

Dosti Ek मोहब्बत  Hai Jo Sirf  सच्चा  Dost Hi Samajh Sakta Hai , Aur Koi Nahin !!

Dosti Woh खज़ाना Hai Jo Sabke paas Nahin Hota. Dosti ईश्वर्  ka Sabse badaa वरदान  Hai ,Jo Sirf unn logon Ko नसीब्  Hota Hai Jinn logon Ko Uske  महत्व  Ka Ehsaas hota Hai Aur Uski कदर  Hoti Hai..

Dosti Sirf kucchh क्षणों ka Saath Nahin, Dosti सदियोन   ka rishta Hai . Log मर jaate Hain par Dosti ka Woh Ehsaas Kabhi  खतम  nahin Hota. Woh hamesha जिन्दा rehta Hai.

Friendship Is Not Some Kind Of System that Is Governed By the Rules , In fact For Me Friendship Is the Most Randomized Relation on This Earth.

If We Can't Say What We Feel to our Friends ,that is Not Friendship, that Is Something Else ! Friendship has No Sorts Of Hesitation in It.

Friendship mein Do इन्सानो  Ke दिल  Ek Hote Hain, A True friend Is Not Some Other person. In fact our Friend is our Alter Ego (Second Self).

In Friendship Nothing Is Hidden, Everything Is known to Each Other..

Like Love, Friendship has No Boundaries In It. It Is Boundless..And has No limits !!

True Friendship Is Not Simply Every body's Cup of Coffee !! Cause According To me The most Required Quality in A Human being Is Acceptance !! And friendship's Literal meaning is "Acceptance"

Dosti Ek Doosre Ki कमियों  Ko Doondh kar , Dost ko त्याग  Dene ka Naam Nahin Hai

सच्ची  Dosti Ka matlab Hai Usse Apne Dost Ko प्यार  Se समझाना ,uski  कमियों  Ko Door karne Mein Uski निस्सवार्थ मदद  Karna.. 

Do I Really need to Say ??

Dosti Mein Koi छोटा-बड़ा Nahin Hota , Nah hi Koi Ameer-Gareeb !!

Dosti Mein Koi Male-Female Nahin Hota.

सच्ची Dosti Inn Sab Cheezon Se kahin Upar hai  ! 

Friendship means Doing Random Things ! As i Said Before Friendship Is Randomization For Me !

Iss "दौर " Mein yeh Cheezein karna kabhie kabhie bahut Mushkil Ho jaati hain !!

• Like Randomly Hugging A Friend (Irrespective Of the Bloody "GENDER")

• Kuchh bhi keh dena Jo mann mein Aaye (Without giving A Second thought or Being Calculative)

• Yunhi Koi prank Khel lena, Yeah Mazaak mein kuchh keh Dena(Without making Do's And Not To Do's lists)

• Yunhi kabhie Bhi Ek Doosre ke Ghar pe Aajana ( Without A real Cause or For Naasta Or Coffee)

• Yunhi raat ko 2-3 Baje Neend Nahin Aaye Aur message karna "Kya kar raha hai" (Without Thinking Ke jag Raha hoga Ya Nahin )

• To React In A manner We Want In Friend's presence (Without making An Assumption Chart of yeh Kya Sochega, Sochegi  Etc)

• To Act like A Complete insane , And Retard When our Friend Falls , Or Do Something Embarrassing(Without thinking isse Bura Toh Nahin lagega ).

For Some people It Might Be Easy to get All These Qualities , Or to Perform All These "Risky Jobs" but i Have Not Got Such A friend With Whom I Can Be My selves ! but I M Certain Someone Is Made For me Too.. After All I Am Not that bad Or unlucky ! Der Aaye Durust Aaye ! just Saying ...

And then Some Amazing Moments Of Silence , When your friend Is Sitting next to You.But you Guys Don't Speak. Yet Think It Was the Best Conversation You Ever had ( Picked this Line From Web,Cause I Love it )

 Those true buddies (Soul-mates) Are indeed hard To Find !

jinke upar Aapka haqq hota hai.Aur unka Aap pe ! !

A true Friend Is one Who Motivates us to Rise up, And fight With All The Odds rather Than Demotivating Us By making Some Harsh Comments..

Where There Is proud ,Friendship Can't Stay There For longer time !!

For Me the Most "Arduous" Job Is To get Such kind Of Friend As i have imagined & For Whom I Have Come in This World. Such A person For Whom I Will Do literally Anything (Dying Is off course Well-Known)....

The person Who may Change For The World but Would never Change For Me .. He Would Be my best friend Always Despite Whatever happens ! For Whose Priorities may Change Gradually but Some Part of him Would Still Require me As His Best Friend ! 

That one For Whom i may fight With Entire World just To make Sure he his Doing Well !

For Whom my Affection Would never Diminish And Lasts Even After We Die !

For Whom I Shall Sacrifice My possessions to Make Sure he is Comfortable !

People May Succeed in influencing me in Any Way Except Changing My hopeful Attitude Towards My 0ptimistic Belief That " I Will get My Soul Mate " i am bound to get one ! And the Day i Will Be In the State of realization ..i Would be Dancing With Full of joy And Cheer I Would be Happiest person On This Earth That Day !!

At last Some of the Most Interesting And Lovely Lines From A few Songs :

• Meri Zindagii Savaari,Mujhko gale lagake ,baitha Diya Falak pe, Mujhe khwab Se uthaake, Yaara teri yaari Ko Maine Toh Khuda Maana,tere jaisa yaar kahan,kahan Aisa yaarana ...!!

• Teri Har Ek Buraai Mein Daante Woh Dost,Gham Ki Ho Dhoop Toh Chaaya bane tera Woh Dost,Naache Bhi Woh teri Khushi Mein,yaaron Dosti Badi Hi Haseen Hai !

• Tu Hai Jaisa Mujho Waisa Dikhna..Dikhna..!Besabak surooron ka saaqi

Mujhe kya parwaah iss duniya ki

Tu paas mere jag paas mere

Main hoon hi nahi iss duniya ki

Tumhi din chadhe

Tumhi din dhale

Tumhi ho bandhu

Sakha tumhi

• Saari Duniya Ek Taraf Hai 
  Ek Taraf Hai Hum
  
  Har Khushi To Door Bhage
  Mil Rahein Hai Gum
  
  But When U Smile For Me
  World Seems All Right
  
  Yeh Meri Zindagi 
  Pal Mein Khil Jaaye
  Jaane Kyun
  
  
  Jaane Kyun Dil Jaanta Hai 
  Tu Hai To 
  I'll Be All Right

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Simple Pleasures Of Life !!

  Hey Readers , Whats Upp !!  
Everybody has its own meaning And Source of Acquiring Happiness ..the Definition Of Happiness Differs From person To person :::


Today I Would Like to Drive Everyone's Attention Towards The Most "Under Valued" And "Under Estimated" things In Life !! They Are →SIMPLE PLEASURES OF LIFE

Well yes ! Most Of The People Are Unconscious Of Their Sources of their Daily Happiness !! that Comes to them From Small , Negligent And Disparaged things in Life .....Yes ,To Me, The Happiness Doesn't Lie In Big things , It Lies in Little Things , True happiness is Not Based On Big Cars ,Big Bungalows, And Other "Big"Materials..but it Is based On Very Little Yet "Momentous" things And Emotions of Daily Routine Life That One normal Person Witnesses !!

There Are Number Of  little Things That bestow the Thing Called "Happiness"  Those Little Things Are Called "Simple pleasures Of Life"

Talking About Me , There Are A few  Tiny But Significant things That Transforms My Mood And Make Me Smile 

•      When I Am Finding  my Clothes that I Want To Wear ..When i Am going   Somewhere , After Searching For Them a Lot , I Suddenly Find Them "Ironed"  by My Mom..That time I feel relieved ! What A Small thing is that But that  Make Me Feel good..yes It Does !

•  When I Visit Somewhere Be It Somebody's office Or Somebody's House ..When that  person Voluntarily offers Me the "Glass Of Cold Water In Tray" Without Asking For That , I Feel very good..i Believe that is Least Anyone  Can Do For A visitor To please Him. People often use This "yeh log toh kisiko paani bhi Nahin Puchte" making us Wonder : Does glass of Water Really Make So Much Difference ??.No that's Not Glass Of water that Affects people But kind Of Treatment They get.. Influence Them ....

• Sometimes When In the Morning We Have Something To Do ,Or Somewhere to Go.Let It Be School Or Office ,if We Accidentally Wake up in The Middle Of Sleep And then We Look AT The Clock ,And realize Its Still possible To Sleep !! That Emotion Is beyond Description. How Much Relaxed one Feels that very Time !   

• When I Use To be In School ,I Use To have "Tuition Classes" A few No.Of Times My Tution teacher use To teach Me Some Chapters Which were Not yet Started in School that time..after few days when school faculties use To teach Them , i Would Answer Right Away As Instantly  as possible , because i already knew them..At That time other classmates use to Give Me Some "Evil Eye" Looks ..they Looked Surprised And I Felt Happy because teacher would appreciate me ! 

• Sometimes When Someone persists me To go Somewhere Where I Don't Wish To go ..Still for The Sake Of them I Agree Sometimes , After A Bit When the plans Are Cancelled , It Excites My Lazy Nerves up to The Core Of  Uttermost relief ! That moment I feel happy. Off course I Don't Express that  ...

• When We Are Busy For Long Time , We Often Ignore the People Who Love Us , We Often fail To render Them our "time" ..Then Suddenly if Some close person to Us Screams At us Showing His/her Unpleasantness because Of us being busy   and says that    "mere liye toh time hi nahin hai tere paas"  Or  "Yaar Baut Din Ho gaye hamein Mile Hue ,Chal Milte hain ! Please" These Words Make Us Feel "Wanted" And "Valued" that time One Certainly Feels "happy" At least i Do !

• When I Was KID  The one Thing About School Always use To Thrill me & Everybody I knew was "Picnic" or can be called  "Annual Thriller" the Moment teacher revealed the Places Where We Were Suppose To Go ..Was Of Sheer Joy And rejoice..Really !! But conversely the laborious job use To Be "Convincing Parents" So That they Grant Us the Money To be paid to Be Eligible For going to Picnic. Not Enough ! To Induce our Friend's Parents Also Was A Job to be Done By Us ! Eventually When Everybody use To Agree !! That moment Was Full Of Satisfaction" And "Happiness"  

• Another Source of "happiness" -- " Dining Floor" Yes truly having A Meal On Floor Is much More relaxing Rather than Dining Table Or Bed !having Food..With The family or Friends On The Floor Discussing Things..Serving Each Other or getting Served By "Mom" Is verily A joyous Experience !Specially When i m At Somebody's Home And i AM treated Like This..It feels So Good !

• Have you Noticed Sometimes When We realized We Have lost our Wallet Or Mobile Or Anything "Valuable" how "Dreadful" We Feel..but Then After few Seconds We Realize That its there Where it Should Be In our Pocket or Where We kept it ..there Is Sudden transformation Of  " Concussion → Sigh Relief ! this Confers Happiness To Mind !  

• When Sitting By A Window , When We Are Deeply Thinking over Something ,than Suddenly When A sudden flow Of breeze touches us Smoothly On face ,It feels Air Is talking To Us.It feels Wonderful to me !

So These Are the things that Accord Me With "Happiness" And "Delectation" I Have Seen Many people Who Despite of riches Are unhappy ..because The Real Happiness Doesn't Lie in "riches" but "Small pleasures of Life" 

I Would Like to Share A Few Lines that represents Simple pleasures :


mere din bachpan ke, khel woh aangan ke
woh saya aanchal kaa, woh tika kajal kaa
woh lori rato me woh narmi hatho me
woh chahat aankho me woh chinta bato me
bigadna upar se mohabbat andar se 


That's All i Wanted to Share With You All ! Thanks For Reading ! Happy Blogging ! 

Me AND My Journey With My Earphones !

Hey Readers ,How Are You All !! Hope You Are Doing Good !!

Today i Shall Share My Opinions About Music. Needless To Say It Is the important Ingredient Of One's Hobbies list Isn't It?




Everybody has Their Journey Of Life Through Some Way or Other..Some By Travelling  ,Some People by Experiencing Different Things In Their Daily Lives and a lot more ways..for Me The biggest Journey has Been The Journey With My Earphones ..Yes indeed..As Soon As I Plug In My Earphones In My Ears..i AM All Set to Experience Thousands Of emotions At The Same Time..The Kind Of Impact That Music And the lyrics Of The Song We Are Listening To Have..is Beyond Description !! For Different People There Are Different Sorts Of Songs , Different Sorts Of Genres They Like And HENCE An Entirely Different "WORLD"  And An Entirely Different "JOURNEY" For Every Single Person !! "Our Songs"  As We call To Refer Our "Favorite Tracks"  Are Uniquely Heard , Modified , Visualized And Felt..According To Me..because it Has Been The Case With Me..!! For years Now ..




For Me The Most Favourite Song Of Mine "Har Gadi Badal Rahi Hai Roop Zindagi" Has Been The Great Evoker Of Interest ,Delight And Relish ..Because This Song Has Got The Kind Of Music And Lyrics that Make me WOO more And More..As Soon As The Song Starts ..I Reach the Place,i Think i Have A Deepest Connection With..here It Is !!

As You Can See the Middle Path , I Visualize i AM Walking there With Sad Mood.. And Suddenly Someone (My Best Friend)Comes in My Way..And That person Convinces Me "The Life Is Not That Bad As I Think " He Walks With Me , talks With Me, he Shares With Me,He Even Cries With Me ..he is like A "Shadow Of Night"  To me..We Carryout Every Course of Action TOGETHER .I Don't Need To Share Anything Going In My Head because he Already Knows It ..he Doesn't care About The People because He Knows i AM With Him Always And Always Whether Needed Or Not !! i Can hug That person Whenever i Want ,i Can Cry Upon His Shoulder And I Can Provide Him My Shoulder TO Cry Upon !! In Difficulties In Rough Times ,In good Times , in Times i Am Overwhelmed With Happiness ,That Person Is In Front Of Me Each And Every Now And Then...Sometimes this Song Makes Me Weep bitterly Because This Is Exact Scenario I Am Dying To Witness In My Life ..However this Song Makes Me Confident And Joyful a Lot Of Times !!

                                                       This Is The Best Part Of Music Really !! I Wish The Brain Could Have  The Ability to Record The Kinda Stuff We use To visualize Through Music............... 




If This Could Happen, Everybody Would be Having His/her  Computer's Space Full Of The Videos ..Of What they imagine..Besides The Music One Listens have A Deeper Influence then Anybody Could ever imagine ..It Can !


Have you Ever Noticed If There is Particular incident in Our Past That is Connected To Some Particular Music Track ..And When Ever that Song is Being Played ..Within Milliseconds We Are There in That Moment When Something Particular Happened in The Past !Whether Good Or Bad  That Isn't The Point...This is The Beauty Of The Music friends !!


There Are Various Tracks That Take Me To The moment Where i Was uttermost Happy ..For Example
The Title Track of Cinderella --The Show That  Was Aired on SaharaOne Channel As A Part Of JustKids-The Main Show ..No Sooner Do this Song is Played In Front Of Me ,It Reminds me The Most Simplistic ,And No-Gadget Life i Use To Lead In My Childhood..it Also reminds Of The Beautiful moments Spent With My lovely Cousin Bittu , because she Was the One Who Made me Watch This Show.. ! And I Enjoy Every Bit Of It Till It Ends :)




The Song JANE Do NA JANE JANE Do NA From "CheeniKum" takes Me To The Balcony Of My Old House Where I Use To Sit On One Table In Rainy Days....I Use To Have "Naasta"And My Favourite "Chai" Watching Rain ...And Listening To radio In My Dad's New cell "N72" And I Use To Play With My Childhood Friend "Geeta"...How Simplified And No-tension Life It Was...the Only thing That Use To Worry Me Was "Tution's Homework" Whenever i Listen This Song now..I get Lost In That Past Life..Which Was Immensely Beautiful....!!!

If Asked By The Video Composers i AM Sure We All Can offer Them the most Suitable PLOT For The type Of Music And Lyrics They Have ..Because Everybody Has Got Their The Best appropriate imagination Powers to make The Song of their Life Look Solely Different ..

Thanks To The Nature That We All Are Blessed With Great Visualization strengths and Potential !! 

Why Me And Blogging ?

  Warmly Welcome To ALL Of You Reading This !

Who I Am ?

I AM Jay Totlani , A 18 years Student Exploring New Things Everyday And Discovering More And More About Human Life And Its Emotions.I Stay In Ahmedabad Currently Pursuing Bachelor Of Business Administration.


What Made Me To Start Blogging ?
Well i Have Started Blogging to get Connected With Various No.Of People off course. Besides To have A look On My Personality And My Character With Reader's Eyes :)
i Want To Know Through How Many Dimensions people In The World think ,How Much Minuteness They Possess When it Comes To Different Subjects About "Life And Its Components"




Which One Word Describes Me The Best ?
An Ambivert.




What's the Primary Purpose Of My Blog ?

For Me There Is No Purpose As Such For Writing A blog .But Yes Definitely I Want To Know The Way people think,What's Their Take On Different Matters ,Being A Thinker And Philosophical Human i Think Deeply On every Subject And Aspects Of Life..because that is something i enjoy Doing. Be It "Subha Ki Chai Ka Mazza" or "Shaam Ke Naaste Ki Feeling".To Discover Beauty Of Every Creature Is Something i m Aspired To Do As Every Human Is Different Right !?

What I Am tend To Do ?

I will Make It A point That i interest readers of This Blog Always And Developing a Special Bond With Them is Something i would look forward to.After All Blog Is Valued by Its Readers.

Why "Journeys Of Life" ? 
If There Is Some Topic That I Can Discuss About ,IT Has to Be Journey Of Life Consisting The Elation ,Sweetness ,The Simple Pleasures ,On The Contrary the Difficulties And Miseries Of Life. Everything About Life And Everything About The happenings Around us that We Seldom Notice But Which Have A Deeper Impact On the Way We perceive Things.So Basically I Am here To Discuss Such Topics And Subjects That I And Any Normal Person Would Witness In His/Her Life.


That's All About Me For Now.I Will Come up With A New Topic Whenever i get Something Really Stimulating And Engrossing !Well I Am Not Expecting Any Appreciation But i m Definitely Expecting Support !Thanks For Reading :)